When families experience significant liquidity, establishing a single-family office (SFO) often feels like the natural next step. You gain control, privacy, and alignment across generations. It becomes the hub where financial reporting, investments, governance, and family priorities converge. For a time, it can feel like the perfect solution — the culmination of a life’s work expressed in structure.
Families with hundreds of millions under management build lean teams to handle everything from taxes to trust administration. For a while, it works beautifully. The family knows exactly where to turn for answers, and life runs with reassuring rhythm.
But for one family I met, with $650 million in wealth, the cracks had begun to show. They had made their fortune in finance. Their instincts told them to run lean, relying on a single key professional to hold everything together. That one employee became the hub of institutional knowledge — and the glue holding the office intact.
It worked…until it didn’t.
Why Strong Foundations Can Fracture
The very strengths of a single-family office — control, privacy, alignment — can become vulnerabilities if the structure isn’t designed to evolve. Here are some of the key factors that can lead to a breakup.
- Concentration of knowledge: When everything rests on one person, continuity is fragile.
- Limited perspective: One voice can’t capture the full range of governance, tax, technology, and investment best practices.
- Career stagnation: Without room to grow, talented staff lose momentum — or leave.
- Operational fragility: HR, compliance, and CFO functions piled onto one desk leave no margin for error.
Indeed, these risks are far more common than families realize. According to Family Office Exchange, more than 60% of single-family offices operate with fewer than five employees — making continuity and succession planning an ongoing concern.
As I often remind clients, a single-family office is born out of strength, but it can quietly become a point of weakness if left to stand alone.
A Better Path Forward: Shared Strength, Embedded Continuity
Evolving beyond a standalone SFO doesn’t mean starting over. It means stepping into a model that blends the intimacy of your trusted team with the resilience of scale.
At Pitcairn, we often embed a family’s existing employees directly into our shared single family office platform. Families keep the people they know and trust, while those employees gain the resources of a broader ecosystem: best practices, advanced technology, peer collaboration, and operational resilience.
The benefits compound quickly, resulting in:
- Continuity with trusted staff
- Access to collective intelligence and shared expertise
- Career paths and professional development for employees
- Integrated systems for reporting, compliance, and oversight
- Resilient HR and CFO functions no longer resting on one desk
It’s not about losing control. It’s about securing it — for this generation and the next.
From Independence to Evolution
For entrepreneurial families, independence is sacred. But just as businesses outgrow their first structures, families can outgrow their original office model. The real measure of success isn’t how long you hold onto a structure — but how gracefully you evolve it.
That was the realization for the $650 million family. With one employee at the center, the risk was simply too great. By partnering with a multi-family office solution, they preserved what they valued most — trust, privacy, and alignment — while gaining continuity, scale, and peace of mind.
In Conclusion
Coming full circle to this article’s original question: Has your single family office run its course? For some families, the answer is yes. But the right time to ask that question is before the cracks appear and turn into crises — before the single point of knowledge becomes a single point of failure. Because ultimately, the family office isn’t about structure for its own sake. It’s about clarity, security, and confidence. And those only endure when the office itself evolves.